December 11, 2013

Gameplayers will self destruct

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Hello my lovelies! 

It has been quiet a while and I am currently enjoying my holiday getting spoiled with my moms food and my little one getting pampered by one and all the whole time. Its about how much effort people make and Im glad for my family and true friends who have made that effort to be there for me all these years. So I thought instead of just fashion, going forward I will share some of my Soul stories and experiences and hopefully help people out there. So game players. This word im sure most of you have heard of. People who intentionally or unintentionally do things to harm others. I find them quiet ridiculous. So what to do, u have a situation you are faced with idiots who are bent to get your attention by saying or doing something rude or insulting. IGNORE. Trust me works wonders. 


By ignoring you are ensuring that you have good peace of mind and you are relaxed and can have continued your life in a more peaceful and happy manner. The other thing to do is wish them well. Trust me, they arent even aware of how harmful they are being to nobody but themselves, they are losing energies trying to harm your life or mind, they are trying to make you feel low or insultful tells me that they are basically very insecure or are feeling and dealing wiht a lot of crap to try and throw that on you. Basically unhappy. Yes your human, and you must wonder so much how can you take. Well, Ill tell you what I tend to believe. When I know someone is trying to disrupt my peace and wanting to get attention, I just make sure to ignore and give the message that 'you are not worth my time' attitude. By not fighting and responding you are also ensuring that you maintain your class, dont react or drop your level to theirs and feel better about yourself. People would even respect you more. So todays post is featuring some lovely pictures by Jessica Prautzch, and with slight chill here in Asian continent I am grateful for it and I still am able to throw my jackets away and enjoy simple light clothing even now inspite of the little chill....Phew...making the most of it, and totally love these images...

QUESTION OF THE DAY - Have you had anyone backstab or play such games that made you realise how destructive they became in your life? What did u do about it?











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42 comments:

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  4. Yes, there are all kinds of people in this world... and what can you but try to be kind and ignore those that have no kindness in their nature.
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  11. Yes...I've had someone a long time ago that was a thorn in my side. And you're 100% right. Once I totally ignored them (and it was hard), they just seemed to disappear.

    When they don't get the attention from you...they move on to someone else.

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  18. Wonderful pictures!

    And I agree, ignoring such people is the best way to treat them. I do exactly the same as they are not worth to get any attention from myself!

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  21. I agree, ignoring is sometimes the best way out. But it's frigging hard!!! I always feel the need and a burning inner urge to respond whenever I feel I'm attacked or somebody's doing anything to harm me. Or people I care about. But lately I've been trying out this tactic you promote and I must say it works wonders - like you said.:) It helps me to keep my cool and my peace of mind, which is the most important - in this time of year and in all others too...

    I hope you're enjoying some more of your mom's delicious food and having fun with your loved ones, babe.;) Happy holidays!!

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